Divorce Poison by Dr. Richard A. Warshak

Author:Dr. Richard A. Warshak
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: HarperCollins
Published: 2010-01-31T05:00:00+00:00

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TAKE ACTION

Rejected parents must exercise self-restraint. When you know that your ex wants to make you look bad, don’t make it easier. Expect no mercy when you are the target of a hate campaign. When you give in to anger and frustration, your behavior will be taken out of context, and will provide ammunition for a campaign of hatred. Your ex will put a spotlight on your mistakes, claim that this is typical of your behavior, and cite this as the reason for your children’s alienation. Your ex’s contributions to alienation may then be overlooked or minimized.

To help avoid losing your temper in response to your child’s rejection, remind yourself that this would be playing into the hands of your ex. Instead, channel your anger into devising an effective response to brainwashing. If you must blow off steam, find a friend to listen, not your ex or your children. Remember, no parent ever softened a child’s heart by treating her harshly.

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